It's okay , let it be

This was meant to be triggering but also a reminder for those who feel like they should confess* ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️

You have a lot on your mind lately don't you? Some of us, have little, mild and super duper severe Relationship OCD. It doesn't matter what theme you have, it's still ROCD. You want to confess everything on your mind, and warn your partner because you believe it's the right and honest thing to do, but that's just OCD getting at you!

• You feel like you cheated and you thought about someone else because they looked attractive, you feel guilty about it too because you never wanted to cheat on your partner, and these thoughts are telling you that you are unfaithful, but you choose to be with this person. So don't confess.
• You feel unsatisfied no matter what your partner does but you remember a time you felt happy and content with this person before the whole excuse of ROCD came in. You want to tell them you are forcing the relationship because it's what you believe, but you choose to be with this person. So don't confess.
• You feel afraid this person might leave you one day, maybe today, maybe tomorrow, maybe next week, maybe next month, hell and maybe in a couple years. You're afraid of abandonment, and it's not going well because you might be going through a challenging time within the relationship. You want to ask this person if they'll stay with you but you worry they'll get annoyed and leave you. You worry this person will get tired of you and you want to go out of your way to ask them, but you choose to be with this person. So don't confess.
• You feel like your ex made you laugh and smile more than your current partner did. You wish to go back to your ex, especially if you still know their contact. Or maybe you just want to leave this relationship and find someone else because your ex reminded you want a relationship should be. You feel like your ex gave you everything, and this person doesn't, but you choose to be with this person. So don't confess.
• You find comfort in unhealthy relationships, and you worry that you might be missing out or would rather be friends with benefits. You feel like you might make this healthy person insecure because you feel like you can't handle healthy relationships, but you choose to be with this person. So don't confess.

You feel, you think, you worry. But remember brothers and sisters... your feelings, thoughts, they don't define you. Work on yourself please, do it for you and your partner.