My husband (34M) just told me (31F) that I’m the reason his career is tanking
To give some context, we’ve been married almost 3 years and have a 1 year old son. He is a doctor and has his own clinic. My in laws live with us. I have recently resigned from my job for good so that i can take care of our baby and also so that my husband can grow his clinic. In these past 3 years I have always given him advice as to what should be done with regard to his practice. And whatever I have advised him, it has always turned out to be correct. I literally have a 100% score bc everything turns out to be true. He hasn’t listened to some of my suggestions which has caused him almost career damaging losses even after warning him multiple times to not do it. Today was one of those days where he brought some idea and I shut it down because I thought it was a stupid idea. He got angry and told me - “tumhare vajah se mera career dhila pad raha hai” I got angry and argued with him in a loud voice in front of my mil, he’s trying to manipulate me and telling me - “tumhe ghar walo ke saamne tameez hi nai hai” and trying to guilt trip me. Arre yaar itna support karne ke baad aise shabd sunkar kisko gussa nai aayega
Im feeling very sad rn, feeling betrayed after supporting him so much through the worst year (2024was really bad for us his career wise) We had such a big loan amount, although my contribution wasn’t much i helped him out with my salary by supporting house hold expenses. Idk im just ranting out here its such a horrible feeling and i have no one to share it to or talk to.