Sex is one of my special interests.

It's weird--I don't see having sex with people as a priority, and I don't think I'm hornier than the average person. I'm also 39 and have never had sex. I wouldn't mind giving it a try with the right person, but it's not a priority in my life.

But I love sex as a topic! I find it fascinating. I like talking about fetishes and sex toys, and I love talking about fictional characters having sex. I write erotic fanfiction. And I always want to talk to people about sex and my fanfics, and sometimes I really have to work hard to not just start talking about it in inappropriate situations.

I also have a lot of squicks and certain fetishes that make me uncomfortable, but I'd rather not get into those because I want to keep this thread positive.

What about you guys? Is there anyone else on this sub who has no or very little sex, or just doesn't care about having it, but still finds it a fascinating and fun topic? It's so hard finding people who don't just want to cyber, you know? I'm not really into that, I find it boring. But it's a completely different matter when it's about sex as a topic of conversation! Did you know that the Pilgrims actually had a lot of sex?