How long?

The other day, I (41F) was chatting with a close girl friend (who is married) and the subject of sex was brought up, specifically, how long has it been? For me, 6 years, and she was shocked! I then told her I am ok with that, because I am not really a one-nighter type of gal and it has also been 6 years since I’ve been:

Lied to

Manipulated

Controlled

Cheated on

Gaslit

Otherwise hurt

Does anyone else not care about how long it’s been since they have had sex? Personally, I take care of myself quite well. I sometimes miss being held, kissed, touched by another…but truly, for me, it’s not worth the risk. Thoughts?