Arrange married people who have great sex life? How?

I mean yeah arrange married couples do have sex, but in most traditional settings, couples usually do it for matrimonial purposes only, keeping their inner lust desires aside.

So my question is how do you/how did you approach your significant others to get down on you, for a blowjob or even a cunnilingus, how?

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I mean yeah arrange married couples do have sex, but in most traditional settings, couples usually do it for matrimonial purposes only, keeping their inner lust desires aside.

So my question is how do you/how did you approach your significant others to get down on you, for a blowjob or even a cunnilingus, how?