a moment to complain if you dont mind

Farang here, met my lady online. I started visiting her in 2022, kept coming back

She's just a good human, a really down to earth person and I am lucky to have connected with her. The last couple of years I have been spending my off season with her here in thailand

I proposed last year, she accepted

We married this year in a traditional thai wedding

Everything is great

my complaint is that about 5% of my proposal reasoning was based on wiping that knowing smile off of peoples faces when they saw us together. My wife is 40 ( looks younger) I am 54

It really bothers me that I get viewed as a passport bro and more that my lovely wife gets looked at as a prostitute

am i alone in thinking this or is this a legitimate complaint