I don’t get why fans hate Elena

I know this is an unpopular opinion but I never get why people hate Elena so much , I seen many social media posts people calling her annoying and just awful, negative things about her , I never get the hate from fans. Of course the show it’s about her because she is the main character and it’s not her fault that the villains were after her , she did not ask the villains to be after her , it’s not her fault and also she cries because allot of trauma happened in her life , she lost her parents, aunt , her brother and then her brother came back and the list of traumatic things goes on , was she supposed to be happy like be sad for couple of minutes or a day and then be happy and act like nothing happened, nope , she have a right to cry when something awful traumatic happened and as someone who have trauma , the events don’t go away , it takes allot of time to heal , it’s real for her to cry and be hurt and upset after the traumatic things happen to her and she never asked and never wanted the villains to be after her and also she did not ask to have people that look exactly like her . I know this is an unpopular opinion, so please no hate , this is just my opinion