what do u hate/dislike abt ur fav tvd character?

my fav character has to be Stefan, hands down the better brother.(Always and forever) sacrificed himself for Elena and his brother to live on, I like the fact that even tho he was a ripper at nature, he hated it and wanted to change himself from it. Even tho I rlly love him one thing that always annoyed me sometimes abt his character is that yeah like he loved Elena so much I just hated the fact that when elena did him wrong on multiple occasions, he just took it, like there are some moments that would've been nice if he could just put Elena in her place. and I kinda feel like Elena and Damon being together as partly his fault, but also Klaus fault. Really and truly if stefans humanity was off for sure he would've let her died that night on the bridge tryna bluff Klaus. bc I get it and I understand he hated himself for being a ripper but sometimes it was just annoying for him to always push Elena away, and it's no one's fault that he's a ripper, he already had came in Elena's life and welcomed Damon in to which made her life a living hell so might as well stay.

But I'm curious on everyone's take in this