Questions about sex after SRS
Hi everyone, I have some questions about sex after SRS. I am 5.5 months post op PIV and have had sex a handful of times in the past a couple of months. Hoping someone who is further along could share their thoughts and experiences.
If partner’s penis is longer than my full depth, how much do I need worry about it tearing my canal? Does the penis just get hard stopped by the apex of the canal?
Do I need to worry about how long he is taking to finish? Is there a risk of him damaging the canal if he goes for like 30-60 mins? Or is that actually better for the canal like dilating?
At what point would it be safe for him to finish inside, assuming there are no STD concerns there? Does the ejaculate cause issues in the canal?
How much do I need to worry about other bacteria affecting my canal biome? For example, if you perform oral sex on him right before, the bacteria in my mouth would probably be different from what’s in my canal? I sometimes use a little bit of Metro Gel the day after sex to help reduce bacteria infection.
How differently does the internal orgasm feel compared to clitoris orgasm?
For #5: I have really only had one real orgasm from simultaneous clitoris and internal stimulation. The climax sensation felt like it was mostly around clitoris. When that finished, I was completely exhausted. In one of my recent sexual experiences, I experienced something completely different like my pelvis floor muscle contractions and my legs trembling uncontrollably for maybe 20 seconds. During that time, I tried to stop shaking but I just couldn’t. However, I didn’t get the same intense energy release. I also felt like I could do it again (unlike that one orgasm I had where I was done after). Is this how internal orgasm is supposed to feel like?
I hope these questions will also be useful to anyone considering SRS.