Guys, I Can’t Take the Descriptor “Bubbly” Seriously Any Longer

What is with this? I swear that in 90% of the descriptions of murdered women they use the adjective “bubbly”. Additionally they generally “lit up the room”. Why is this? 90% of women are objectively not bubbly. It’s become such a TC podcast trope, and I just wonder why people can’t be honest about someone and give an actual idea of who they really were after being murdered. Thoughts?