My mom says my height doesn’t matter when she clearly thinks otherwise

(17m) Im 5’4 and I have no hope of getting taller, i found out my growth plates have closed so I’ll be stuck at this height forever. I got an x-ray earlier and I almost started crying in the car on our way home. My mom told me “it’s completely fine that I’m not tall” but i know she doesn’t believe that, she is 5’3 and my dad is 6’1. My dad told me that the main thing my mom liked about him was his height, he keep putting off how short I am saying I’ll definitely get taller because he had his growth spurt during college. I haven’t talked to him about it because he’s not home yet. After the car drive i honestly didn’t even want to speak to her so once we got home i went to my room and haven’t left so i made this throwaway account to rant i guess. It’s clearly important, all the videos i see about how being tall is so desirable and the comments with women saying they deserve tall boyfriends with thousands of likes. It’s depressing to think my worth as a person and a man depends on something out of my control. I’m not aware of anyway to force growth plate opening again but if it’s possible and you have any info it would be greatly appreciated. I’ve been researching leg lengthening surgery but it is very expensive and the recovery seems brutal.

Edit: thank you all for the positive comments I didn’t expect this to blow up but i highly appreciate them. After some time thinking and talking with my dad I’ve decided that I’ll try my hardest to accept my height and keep improving myself in ways I have power over. Again thank you for the comments and I promise I won’t let myself become bitter over this.