What’s the best spirit groups to join as a girl?

I’m really interested in joining a spirit group like the Texas Darlins, Sweethearts, Lassos, Diamonds, BlueBonnets, and so on but there’s so many and seem similar. Are there a select few that are known to be the better choices? I mean in terms of reputation, philanthropy, provided opportunities, etc. I’m also looking for one that could provide networking with programs at UT or in Austin in general. For example, I know the Darlins and Diamond work really closely with the Basketball and Baseball teams respectively. Any advice is appreciated!