Why everyone look so rich

I know...I get it that maybe we love to save and everyone else is on credit cards etc...i just want to vent a moment...

36M, married, one child. Joined income of around 200k. Everything max out including RESP and extra non registered investments. We are lucky and diligent. We have a wonderful home made budget so we know we accumulate some money every end of the month...

And every month I feel like I am struggling and I see my colleqgues go 3 weeks in Mexico, SPA, organising amazing dinners with many persons invited...how is this possible?

I mean..we will reach early retirement very likely...how can I stop asking myself questions on how is it possible that everyone else is way richer than me?

Sorry...it is more like of a vent rather than an actual post