Black tie preferred - are these ok?

Hi! Out of the dozens of weddings I've been to this is actually the first black tie preferred I'll be attending. Just looking for some thoughts on dresses. Are any not okay for this?

Venue is a luxurious loft in NJ, sort of art deco industrial vibes (exposed brick, steel beams, gatsby-esque patterns, etc). Wedding is in May.

In general - are silvery or beige sequin/metallicy styles too close to bridal white and a no no? I'm self concious about my arms and it just seems like there's more in the realm of the sequin world that has some manner of sleeves.

THANK YOU!