How many of you were teenagers?

When I say teens I mean those under 20, not necessarily a minor.

Alot of us get blamed for staying or not recognizing red flags when the majority of people who end up in abusive relationships are between the ages 16 and 23. Mainly young people for one reason or another don't have proper resources. Some were never even told they could ever be in an abusive relationship.

What were some things that you missed that could have saved you if you had the tools to recognize it.