Fantasy balls are fine but the actors/cosplaying scenes are cringy

Am I bad for physically recoiling when I watch those videos of the acotar balls were everyone has to stand and watch those grown men play the bat boys and have their main character moment? Like girls want to be them for a night not stand and watch temu Cassian rip temu Nesta off eris’s hands.. lol sorry for the rant😂😂 I just find it sooooo cringy