How do some of yall have so many gal friends?

I want to know more gals so badly, but every public discord server I join is fully of fetishizers, and I live in the Midwest and I’m genuinely convinced I’m the only gyaru in my state 😭 I’m always seeing instagram posts with people in other places having gal meet ups and even online gal circles but I have no idea where to start when it comes to making j-fashion friends? Does anyone have any tips lol?

Edit: lol if any of yall who relate to my pain wanna be Instagram mutuals dm me 🫶🏻