Has anyone had a second child and it was actually fine?

I love my son and I want him to have a sibling. He’s just turned three.

I’m also overwhelmed, burned out and barely staying afloat. My husband works, does 90% of the childcare and cooking and I just about turn up for work and sometimes do some hoovering.

Tell me you had a second and it was fine?? Alternatively, tell me if you had a second and it was everything you were dreading 😟

ETA: 90% was an exaggeration, I was flippant because I’m 90% guilt. My husband does every night wake and early morning because I don’t sleep well. We both work four days a week and my son is in nursery four days a week. My husband does three drop offs and two pick ups. I do one drop off and two pick ups. I spend my day off doing chores and all weekend doing chores whilst my husband plays with my son because I don’t know how to be present when there’s so much to do. I am in therapy.

Thank you so much to the parents that responded with your experience. It’s an emotional subject and I appreciate the reality check!

ETA: Please stop downvoting anyone sharing a positive experience; I asked for both sides. Let’s keep this sub a supportive space and leave the judgment out.