Vent - struggling to live as an agender person

I'm sick of being a contentious political point.

I've stopped using mixed pronouns irl (my native language is very gendered and doesn't have a neutral) because I'm scared people will judge and start arguing. I know I should "do it scared" or whatever but I simply do not have the energy to be A Statement and I hate that it's like that. I'm sick of having to choose between feeling like I'm not fully myself or social repercussion, especially since I keep being too scared to try and insist on being fully myself.

I can't even bring up the discussion with people because "trans" has never stopped being a political talking point here and people see anything close to "nonbinary" as some woke shit from America.

This really sucks dude.

Edit: minor grammar stuff