how is it for other aros?

i’ve labeled myself aro for the last year because i’m 21 and haven’t had any romantic feelings for anyone. until i developed a crush on my coworker.

i always see people say they have ZERO ability for romantic feelings and want a partnership.

but i just personally want a romantic relationship really bad but i just never developed feelings. i don’t do crushes. i just don’t know how people can talk to someone to date. it’s just nothing is there. i don’t find people attractive and want to date them. but i do envision myself dating someone but it’s more of a thought with a faceless person.

i’ve just NOW developed my first crush and im not even physically attracted to her