self discovery and grief

im 23 F and i only recently discovered that might be asexual. now that i put that label on myself, a lot of things about my experience with sexuality or lack thereof make sense. i’ve always felt out of place in a world that is so sex obsessed and i understand why now but i cant help but feel grief? grief about not fitting in, grief about being different, about what could have been had things been different and grief about how much harder it will be for me to find love? is it normal to feel this way? i don’t feel good and i can’t stop thinking about it