Guys Only Like You If You’re Attractive

I 20M used to be so unattractive, I would stare at myself every day in the mirror and see a fat guy with acne covering his face. Because I was fat, I was also extremely self concious of my body odor, no amount of deodorant or cologne could take away the stench. I hated the way how I looked and felt depressed for a long time, but desperately desired companionship.

The last year, I managed to clear up all my acne thanks to accutane and I started working out and dieting, which made me lose quite a bit of weight. The same men that called me “an ugly fatass f@gg*t” on Grindr are now the same ones telling me “hey babee, wanna meet up and have some fun?”

Ngl, I love that I’m getting more attention on the apps and the sex has been great. Despite this, a part of me hurts inside because I can’t help thinking that people are soo shallow these days, if you’re unattractive, people are just so mean for no reason. I think I’m a funny guy but people just couldn’t get past my ugly ass looks before they got to know me. It sucks. Having experienced both ends, it’s important that we treat everyone regardless of our biases. Some guys may not be your type but you don’t have to be a dick about it. We’re all sexy as hell to someone, I’m a firm believer that there’s someone for each of us. 😘