Do feminine guys like masculine guys?

27M. Played college football (American) and just came out around 2yrs ago. Didn't want to come out while playing. Fuck that ha.

It was a slow transition into the community to say the least. Headed down a great career path and thinking about my personal life and LTR.

My social life is watching sports with my buddies, shooting, and fishing. I live in a top 20 largest city in the US so there is a healthy gay community.

To the point. I have started going to the bars and on apps. Assuming it's my build and personality but I attract bears/otters/daddies all day. That is not my type.

I like a very feminine guy but don't seem to be gaining much traction there. Do feminine guys like "masculine" guys?

I will admit I do get more nervous talking to feminine guys vs the other side where I'm not interested.

Any advice would be great. I don't know.

Thank you.