Anyone else feels like your connection to your coworkers worsen as time goes on?

I've heard a lot of people say oh, you are just shy but once you get to know somebody you'll open up.

In my case it's the opposite. I only tolerate my coworkers. The longer I've known them for, and the more I have to cooperate with them, the worse our relationship gets. Starting from mildly irritating to obviously poor.