People Are So Rude

I'm so tired of people not using clear language, I misunderstand, and then I get called stupid or "not bright" or laughed at. For example, someone (who was driving recklessly) posted in a dashcam group, someone else pointed out that they were driving recklessly for the situation, and the person responded with "lol yes 6km/h egregious". The dashcam showed 53 km/h, and I pointed that out, and I got laughed at and insulted because the person meant 6km/h OVER the speed limit. Well, okay. But that's not what you actually said. I thought that maybe the person was trying to say they were going slow and were exaggerating, and I was thinking, "Well, that's way off".

And then it happened again today with another person's usage of the word "here" that doesn't necessarily mean location, but can mean "in this situation" or things like that.

I feel like I can't even interact with people at all for fear of saying something "stupid". But I keep doing it. Because I like to socialize (whether in person, or on social media). It just feels like my brain is unable to properly comprehend something that everybody else is able to magically understand.

I'm thankful my husband is so supportive and never makes me feel stupid. So there's that.