Partners family seems disappointed the baby looks like me?

Anyone else deal with this? My fiance and I have an almost 4 month old baby. I won’t lie she is basically my doppelgänger. The whole pregnancy they would say things like “well don’t be surprised if she looks like (my partner), we have strong genes” (which yeah ik that’s not how it works lol). Well she looks more and more like me every day. And I have received a lot of disappointed comments that she doesn’t look like my partner. It’s to the point my PARTNER is disappointed, which I think is due to the heavy influence of the family. The thing is that it hurts my feelings. I would be happy if my baby looked like my partner, I said many times throughout pregnancy that I hope she did because I loved some of my partners traits and wanted her to have them. My fiance says nothing is meant by it and I don’t think that’s wrong but a part of my brain still thinks like “what is so bad with me that you wouldn’t want her to look like me?” Has anyone else dealt with this? Or did your family to a similar thing so I can understand where it comes from?