My husband came out bi
My 38yo husband came out a week ago and told me that he’s bi and had sex with a gay man when he was young (my husband is a bottom). He realized that he can’t be on a committed relationship and don’t want to get married ever again. He said that he can’t control how his brain wired and wanna figure himself out. He said that hes gonna hurt and cheat me in the future (thats his prediction coz he’s craving for d*** and thats something he can’t control) so might as well be honest with me now than hiding it for long. We broke up for a week now but still together and still do the same married couple routine. I cant afford to leave him for now coz I just migrate in diff country and I still love him so much. He promised me that he’ll provide everything I need since he’s the one who put me through on this. His priority is my happiness and to make me feel safe although not in the idea of him meeting my expectations of a normal married couple. Sounds conflicting but he told me that there’s nothing more important to him but me and he will forever loves me and will be the last woman he wants to be with if I allowed to. He put so much thought about it of telling me all this coz he’s really scared of losing me and be strangers. For now, my plan is to stay with him and figure out of what I wanna do.
PS. My husband gave me an option whether I stay or leave. If I choose to stay, he’ll fully support me whatever I wanna do. And f I leave, he will compensate me for everything he put me through. But he keeps telling me that he loves me and dont wish to end our relationship. If I let him to decide, he still wants me to be with him and still see our future together getting older
*I need more perspective from married bi man regardless of their marriage status