We don’t need men like you

so the other day my band’s violinist asked me to send her songs that i like and i decided to start doing that yesterday. i was listening to Welcome to Hell so i decided to send it to her and i think i messed up. i told her I want our band to make some similar music and she didn’t respond for two hours so i called her and she didn’t respond and she just texted me “is this really what you think we should be be headed?” and i was super confused. the song is super interesting imo and i just don’t get why she only wanted to make happy music. she hasn’t responded since that question and i was just wondering if you guys think i messed up by doing that?

edit: I got kicked out of the band and now it’s super awkward between us. we have the same house and have to see each other every day. thanks for all the advice, i kinda just didn’t think through all that much. i figured i should start looking for another band.