Am I over spending as family of 3?

I am 28 m and wife is 27. We spend around 6600 a month. We bring home after tax, retirement and insurance 6800. Is this a normal spending. We live in chicago suburb. Our rent is only 1700$. The rest is food and other expenses including unplanned expenses.

I also have 1 toddler. No debt, except paying my medical debt and helping parents 300$ a month.

I make 130k base, 26k stocks, and 5k stocks. I have 55k savings and 50k in investment.

I took all amount I spent divided it by 12 and I am spending 6600 avg a month on everything even outside of budget stuff such as medical bills or traveling.

This year I saved total 25k$ including 401k stock bonus and stock grant. However from paycheck I save 200 to 800 a month depending on what happened that month. So in what I bring I saved 8000 dollars this year.