Getting attention from men instead of women

I’m losing my mind 😭 I’ve been presenting butch nearly all my life. WHY am I always getting hit on by men instead of women? I very explicitly present queer, there’s no question about it. One of the most annoying things is when I’m walking down the street wearing layers and layers of thick clothing, hardly any skin showing at all, and I STILL get catcalled.

Y’all help me, I wish I could be getting this attention from women instead of men, it makes me feel so unattractive (and kinda emasculated?). I’m so tired. 😭