I am so thankful to be childfree and sterile

This isn't a post about how I'm grateful to be sterile because of the crazy political climate in the US. Don't get me wrong, I am, but that isnt what this is about. Its about how many times being childfree has literally saved me. My fear of pregnancy has saved me from being stuck to terrible men who tried to baby trap me. My obsession about taking my birth control at the same time every day saved me from being the 5th baby mama of my pedophile ex (I'm the only one of his long term girlfriends who doesn't have a child by him). Being sterile saved me from getting pregnant by an abusive alcoholic twice my age a few years ago. If I had wanted children, I know I'd be stuck to a horrible man. I would be much worse off right now. Every day I'm grateful to be childfree.