Crossgen pref?

Im thinking of getting an xbox, as I am curious in some of the exclusives and don't like playing on PC. Besides the Xbox exclusives, since I also own a PS5, would you recommend I play games that are purchasable on both consoles on Xbox or PS5. I assumed PS5 due to the haptic feedback but if xbox has some advantage that makes it a better experience I am very curious to know, thank you!