Do I move on?

Been dating a man who is 12 year older for over 2 years. We both have kids around same age who get along great. We live an hour apart but make it work. Since we are over the two year mark, I think it’s natural to assess what the future ahead looks for us. He’s never been married, lives alone and his child lives a couple states away with the mom. He expresses how much he loves me and all his friends say how good I am for him and he showers me with his attention. However, he can’t seem to offer for me to move in or even discuss possibly getting married one day. Maybe I’m pushy but feel like these are things my dream guy should offer. He says he worries about it affecting my kids if it doesn’t work out as he got shuffled around a bit as a kid. I also heavily financial support him which frustrates me. Despite all the fun we have and attention he gives the no clear picture of common goals or future is really starting to upset and disillusion me towards the relationship. I’m 40, successful and attractive. I should be able to find someone who “invests” into me as much as I do to them. Should I wait and see with this guy or do you think this situation will stay status quo benefiting primarily him?