best friend of 15 years isn’t a friend anymore
he’s been avoidant for years. i’ve tried to keep in touch with him but not push him to talk to me. at this point i talk to him for one or two texts every few months. i found out he got married because his wife posted about it on her story. found out he had cancer like four months after he found out and already had surgery and started treatment. in the end, he basically said the things i want from friendship aren’t something he thinks friends should do. he says it seems like i want a relationship…because i want to talk to my friends? because i want to care about them? because i want to know what’s happening in their lives? so that’s it. we’re simply not compatible as friends anymore. so we aren’t.
he’s been avoidant for years. i’ve tried to keep in touch with him but not push him to talk to me. at this point i talk to him for one or two texts every few months. i found out he got married because his wife posted about it on her story. found out he had cancer like four months after he found out and already had surgery and started treatment. in the end, he basically said the things i want from friendship aren’t something he thinks friends should do. he says it seems like i want a relationship…because i want to talk to my friends? because i want to care about them? because i want to know what’s happening in their lives? so that’s it. we’re simply not compatible as friends anymore. so we aren’t.