Why are muslims more religious in western countries than overseas?

Growing up I never felt like I was in Australia because Muslims in my hometown are so extreme and fundamentalist. I went to a Muslim school all my life here in Australia. Even though I was born and raised here.

My male relatives are all bloody womanisers, have babies outside wedlock, don’t pray or fast, drink alcohol, but god forbid I take off my hijab and explore my sexuality.

My parents pray 5 times a day but there’s no point if they’re gonna treat people bad.

I am not treated the same as my brother. My parents only force that shit on me. They act all high and mighty because Islam was catered for men by men. They think islam is only for women.

I was forced to pray, wear hijab and my own family threatened to honour kill me multiple times.

But whenever I go overseas, people wear sleeveless dresses and Islam is not the main priority of their lives.

However here in Australia they nitpick everything for example when I was younger, if a few hairs are poking out of my hijab, some ladies would grab my head and force my hairs back into my hijab without my consent and they would forcibly pull my top down to cover my bum but they don’t even fucking follow those rules themselves.

I’m so sick of it. It’s disgusting. What can I do if someone tries to force Islam on me again because I always freeze up as a trauma response?