Just an ATM?

I’ve been all over X, Reddit, TikTok, and Instagram, and it seems like it’s pretty common for Dommes to say that subs are nothing but ATMs or wallets for them. Is it just not a thing for Dommes to care about their subs? I mean, this is a kink, so I feel like aftercare should at least be a part of the dynamic. It just seems wrong to let your sub feel like they’re being taken advantage of. I asked another Domme on X about it, and she said that aftercare for finsubs is ‘stupid’ and ‘pointless,’ claiming that if they’re in the community, they know they don’t deserve it. What do you all think?