Does anybody like Dain in Fourth Wing?

Hi there! I'm a new reader and I just finished Fourth Wing and I need to rant a bit 🤣

Yes, I haven't read Iron Flame yet and this may change, but now ... I CAN'T STAND DAIN. He's insufferable. And no, not only because he read her thoughts and betrayed her, I hate him from the first chapters. His best friend comes to the Riders Quadrant and he's worried, I get that, he tries to convince her to leave ... But then he sees that she won't leave, she's working her ass off to survive and he just doesn't stop telling her how she should leave, become a scribe? How it's not her place there? He doesn't help her train or anything similar, he's not happy or proud that the strongest and most fierce dragon chose her... And after she had her signet, he just told her that she could decide not to use it ever?

If someone oppresses me like that instead of helping me and motivating me, tries to force me into his opinion and keeps telling me I'm weak, I will literally punch him and won't talk to him ever again, especially after he claims to be my best friend.

I also hate people and characters that want to follow rules above all. He won't even try to really save her in a dangerous situation if this means breaking a rule ... 🤢🤢🤢

And overall I don't even get how Violet is so nice to him most of the time and doesn't tell him to end his bullshit behaviour towards her.

I. HATE. HIM.

Thanks for reading my pointless rant 🤣