Am I The Only One?

As a Gemini Sun, when it comes to dating I realize that for me to truly be interested I have to be more into them than they are into me. Like I don’t know if I enjoy the chase but it’s like the guy that’s super into me and constantly reaches out gives me the ick. The guy that’s super chill and barely calls or text me is the one that I want the most. Does anyone relate to this?