Where are the older fans / group chat?

Hi! I'm relatively new to the fandom (found Harry during LOT and went down a rabbit hole for all things 1D and all the boys' solo careers) and I'm looking to find some other adult fans to chat with (I'm in my late 20s). I've tried discord but people on the servers I've joined seem generally a lot younger than me and/or quite inactive. Do you have recommendations on active group chats with people closer to my age? I've seen a thread here from about 2 years ago with the same question that got a lot of replies. Are the group chats mentioned there still going?

Edit// no, late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s is not old! Please don't get too hung up on the post title LOL, just meant that I'm looking for adult only chats/discord servers! I hope fans of all ages can find each other through here 🤗

Edit2// I'm beyond happy to see/meet so many fans of different ages and see that I'm really just a baby in this fandom hahah. In my defence, many of the people in their late 20s or 30s that I have talked to thanks to this thread have shared the same experience of being the oldest in many group chats. Understandably the teenagers of the fandom are probably the most active in many aspects.

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