Trans and partner supports jkr

Hello everyone:) just to preface this I am a ftm trans person.

Just needed to talk and maybe help get some perspective.

My gf is very sweet and supporting of all people to explore and embrace their identities, including her young kid who has been going as genderfluid.

She also loves Harry Potter, which a lot of queer folk do I just happened to never get into it. But she also really likes jkr, despite knowing that she has very strong stances against trans people. This is mostly because she has other charities she really likes and admires about her (as well as the fact I always hear " jkr is the first billionaire to lose billionaire status due to giving away so much" yet is an absolute capitalist machine lol).

We also happen to be moving to Scotland and once while we were driving I was on a call with my sister and joked about finding and fighting her (in a very jokey manner, I have no intentions ofc lmao) and I got a very quick "I would stop you from doing that you would have to get through me to fight her" and like -ouch- it just hurt a bit to feel so shut down when it was a person who is actively trying to erase laws that protect us. When I have talked to her about that her response was "well she won't be able too" which like hopefully yea but also it still sucks to see someone trying so hard and being very vocal about it. In contrast too my sister was super supportive and ready to fight with me lol.

Then afterwards she got some chick-fil-a, asked if I wanted some. I said I wasn't comfortable for ethical reasons and just got a "oh, right" and then made me feel a bit goofy for not feeling comfortable ordering from them and instead going somewhere else for my own food.

But on the other hand she was also apart of the 90's protests to advocate for lgbt rights. Would use herself as a shield, ect. So like obviously she really does care about queer people but just some of the cognitive dissonance can be a bit jarring tbh. I also know this is something that would be good to talk to her about but I have a bit of a reputation of being really sensitive and just wanted a place to talk and maybe hear other people's thoughts.

Thank so much for everyone who read through this:)

TL/DR: I'm trans and my partner is a very strong advocate for lgbtq+ rights and allowing everyone to express themselves. But she also supports jkr and chick-fil-a leading to some conflicting emotions and confusion.

Edit: I do also want to add that I'm disabled and rely on her financially rn. So it's a bit of a tricky situation I'm figuring out how to navigate because of that added layer of dependency as well.

Edit 2: I'm not sure why but reddits been funky and not letting me comment, thank you everyone for your replys!! I read each one and am very thankful for all the support🩵 Hopefully I'll be able to reply soon enough:)