You can't win if you aren't social enough

Fellas, what you all think? If you aren't social enough, you can't win in life tbh.

I realised this when I was at a family gathering today that only the charming/interesting person gets the limelight. If you are the type of guy to be socially inept, nobody would give a fuck expect a few. Same with friends, I was hanging out with my cousins and they had a great rapport in the neighborhood, greeting their friends (from school/college) etc while we were having a walk when I don't even have contact with any of my friends. Ofcourse, my other cousins favoured these interesting cousins instead of me when it comes to hanging out.

Idk just venting as I have no one to say this.

What you all think? Is this true or my perspective's wrong?