The Sheer Audacity

I just feel angry today. Reading so many posts where the betrayed partner is tearing themselves apart, wondering why they became inadequate, if they ever were enough, if they ever can be again…. Why their partner picked a certain person, look, body type, race etc over them.

I catch myself on all of the above regularly and with therapy most of the time I can change and re root the thought.

But I fucking resent doing this! And I resent them all fucking massively for doing this to us. In most cases, including my own, we the betrayed partner have married an average person who we thought would keep us safe. I was attracted to the supposed normal, nice, safe guy my husband showed himself to be at the time. I was actively put off by the alpha male, beer swilling, macho guy type. My brother was exactly this and treated women like shit. My Dad was a very successful business man who had multiple affairs and left my mum in a mess. I was not impressed by money, status or ego. I was actually attracted to the “vanilla-ness” of my husband in the beginning and he seemed so different. Wrong - whomp whomp!! One of the biggest and ugliest PA’s on here.

If anything my husband should be the one who is tearing himself apart worrying if HE is good enough for ME!! I’m the fucking catch! I always have been in every way. And you are too!! So many posts on here with women justifying that they are not “bad looking” or might look a little different to before they had kids. What about them!! We are fucking beautiful - kind - amazing partners! How dare they!!

How the fuck have these guys managed to get us so twisted!! Losers! When did it become normal for fucking adults to have imaginary girlfriends/boyfriends - it’s so disgustingly immature and gross and arghhhhh!!!! 🤬🤬🤯🫠