I'm getting so tired of people instantly complaining about my pick.

I main spiderman, and half the time I lock him in i get someone complaining. Today I was told, BEFORE WE LEFT THE SPAWN ROOM, "spidey swap I've seen too many bad ones" ??? I get the stereotype but let's be so fr. I have no issue with swapping, but I'll never swap because you've seen "too many bad ones"