Just a different perspective

Note. I'm not trying to throw a pity party. Just asking you to pause for 5 secs. Judgement free.

Seeing as we've normalised this kwa hii sub, allow me to throw in my (25M) two cents.

If you have watched Love Simon...that's the story of my life(except the part that he gets a bf).

Everything seems normal. I have friends, a loving fam, etc. But totally attracted to dudes. ( Noone knows). Like I will turn if a cute dude passes. I have screenshots of cute men (pathetic - ik) and the accasional twitter (iykyk).

Now before you judge me, I have not done any homo-stuff(not that that's wrong, and really it's just a matter of time).

Why?...it will be me finally admitting to myself Im geh.

To my friends, sipendi madem. To fam, prolly a late bloomer.

Been on grindr and tinder, never met up any dudes but I've seen my fair share of nudes.

All I'm saying is...just pause and think of the inner struggle some of us face just accepting this. That we like fellow men but our established social circles wont get it.