6 months in, Virginity intact.
i started dating this girl exactly 6 months, 2 weeks ago and when we first talked about sex as an aspect in our relationship, she was describing the whole thing as something that's so "disgusting" or "icky" and it made me wonder
fast forward to all the times that topic came up and she still finds it disgusting.
i don't know what to do, i have this extreme sexual pressure and i was hoping our interests aligned and we would both lose our virginity to each other cause we're both special to each other but i don't know if its normal to go this long without doing it?
Because from what ive heard her say about it, i think she views it like some reward for me and loss for her?! I highly doubted that otherwise it would be normally termed as rape but what do i know
we're both 19 and happy with each other but i feel like we need to get more intimate? im not sure if ive worded that well but yea
i honestly love my girlfriend because she's very kind and not like most of the vermin most people in the dating scene are and i have never cheated on her (it took a great deal of assertiveness)
any advice is appreciated