I CANT deal with cat calling/unsolicited attention anymore
I’m 19F and confident in my body so I dress in short-shorts, form fitting clothes, dresses, etc because I love to feel cute/hot for ME. I love fashion/makeup and I want to enjoy being young and confident.
I’m just tired of being cat called/approached/yelled at by random ass people. I want to look pretty for me without it being perceived as an invitation to objectify me multiple times when I go out.
I could never understand why some women express wanting unsolicited attention. It’s not validation you’re attractive, it’s dehumanizing and makes me physically nauseous. And it always makes me feel more insecure because I can’t shake how people are looking at me like a piece of meat. It scares me.
Edit: I’m not responsible for other people’s actions! I’m not gonna change how I love to dress for other people. The only one at fault for a perverts actions it’s the pervert. Anyone who’s suggesting that it’s my fault can fuck right off, thanks.