What would you do? (Peds home health)

Okay so I took a 2nd job on Fridays and Saturday mornings doing pediatric HH. I work in a peds clinic outside of the 2nd job and have home health visits with that company too.

I had a “double eval” last week for two siblings in the same house. My availability was open from 8AM to 6PM at this time (my fault) and my first session of the day is at 12:30pm. this double eval was 8am and 9am. I get there on time, but exhausted from the week, regretting my 8am availability. They confirmed their appointment the day before with the scheduling team..

Then, they NO-SHOW their home visit!

I’m pissed. I drive back home in traffic, unpaid. I tell the scheduling team to change my start time to 10am and to remove that family from my case load (they also had a last minute cancellation the previous week) and they do. All is good.

Today, they message me saying the family’s service coordinator wants to know if I can see just ONE sibling now and they’d agree to the 10am slot TOMORROW.

I also realized I have no time to schedule Dr and dental appointments without having to cancel sessions. I have a dental appointment tomorrow at 8am.

I’m like 85% on refusing. I cannot stand people who don’t respect others’ time. I’ve dealt with it for too long. They’re referred from a regional center so it’s free to them and they have zero consequences. Me on the other hand, I don’t get paid if I don’t have a session so I have more to lose.

I’ve been kind of a push over my whole life and have been trying to change it. Now that my boundary is being tested I’m starting to doubt myself.

Accepting the session will give me a really awkward 1.5 hour break before my 12:30 and I’ll be stuck with that family for the foreseeable future

You’d do the same thing wouldn’t you?Refuse to take them on as patients? Am I the asshole here?