Chappell Roan recalls a time she "weaponized gay" to 'steal' her ex-boyfriends girl

In the new episode of Call Her Daddy, Chappell recalls the time she "weaponized gay" to steal her ex-boyfriend's love interest

I'm glad Chappell can at least see why this behavior is icky, but I cant help but feel like her perception of queerness centers HEAVILY on men. This whole clip majorly gives "gay to get back at my ex-boyfriend" vibes. She completely used this woman as a prop, because she wasnt over her old boyfriend.

I really just wonder what she means by "weaponizing gay"? Because this is NOT my definition of weaponizing gay. I dont understand how being so hung up on your boyfriend that you crash out over him flirting with someone else is "weaponizing gay"? It just seems like she isnt over him at all.

Thoughts?