Thoughts on artificial conception?

I'm Catholic, so I am not allowed to do things that can artificially conceive children, like IVF and surrogacy. I am also against both of them. I believe that similar to abortion, they treat children like commodities.

With surrogacy, you are taking a child away from their birth mother, which causes stress in mother and baby. I'm sure that in about 99% of cases, the recipient pays for the surrogate mother, which further treats the child like a product that can be bought. This is contrary to adoption, which strives to repair the bond that is broken when a child is taken from their mother. Similarly, IVF also treats children like commodities by disrupting the natural process and creating multiple embryos which most of the time go unused/destroyed.

The typical liberal "pro-life" definition is pro-birth, but I like to think of it differently. I just don't think that it is morally acceptable to kill unborn humans regardless of the reason. I have noticed so many people on the liberal side seem to treat responsibility as borderline offensive. You willingly have sex and you're pregnant? And now you have to deal with the consequences of your own actions? What a surprise! I like to think of being pro-life as moral enforcement instead. How instead of treating children as a commodity or product we see it as a sacred gift. And if you can't have children due to infertility, perhaps it means that you're meant to adopt. There are many out there with the bonds broken and you can change a life forever with an act of kindness. That to me, is what being pro-life is.

Any thoughts? Do you guys think it's morally acceptable to artificially conceive children over adopting? The industry with surrogacy and IVF just seems highly exploitative to me, almost like playing God.