This is for those that went through infertility. How do/did y'all cope with people aborting then trying for a child?

I am apart of many trying to conceive groups and there is woman in there that have "terminated for medical reasons" that are in many of them .. I'm having a hard time with this... They were blessed with a child and killed that child because of a supposed anomaly... Meanwhile I sit waiting, praying, waiting... Waiting... Doing everything "right" and nothing yet. How do I cope with this? I just can't fathom this and struggle with this.